I always notice this.. there is always somebody close to us as a solution – support.. for any of our problems but we still keep hunting for somebody else.. irrespective of the extra cost – time loss and no guarantee of definite results..
What can be the reason? The reason is very simple… there is some disconnect.
I always try to find out why this disconnect? – husbands and wives – two friends, clients and the consultants, Employee and the Employer .. All actually need to be transparent in their own interest amongst them. But we hardly see them even open to each other and find the reasons to blame!
As we think on this.. the main reason I find here is lack of trust with each other.. if we think in a proper peace of mind.. we find that – trust is missing from almost every relationships.. infact every relationship is only based on trust but the same is missing.. we 100 times say that I trust you.. he trusts her.. she trusts him and all that but we realise that these statements are all artificial… And never from the heart..
The thoughts keep coming in my mind.. always.. if trust is so important – Why it is missing.. I feel that .. it needs to start from our own.. frankly we don’t trust ourselves.. then how can we trust others.. every relationship has become conditional.. respect in all relationships also has become rare..
And I feel that this is all due to lack of:. Self Confidence,Values in relationships, Values of respect for others, caring and supportive relationships.
All this is happening now a days as Money has taken the place of all above.. race of overtaking others, imbalanced life styles and shortcuts used to make money.. the life is taken to pure speculation..
Quality life – true life.. our life together is just becoming a history.. and we are in races to become a big fish to eat small ones..
We think.. we will succeed but it never happens infact it takes us back at deeper valley.. more difficult to come up easily..
I want to spend time with sharing the knowledge that I have – to those who want.. understanding the values in relationships… Respecting others.. understanding the viewpoints of others.. making them aware of the risks that I understand.. learning more important things in rest of the life.
Preparing myself eligible to serve others..